Where locals meet

How do you like AFF?  

MsSwitch1 100F  
3772 posts
3/1/2020 9:20 am
How do you like AFF?

Tell me all about it...
It’s a shit show
I get exactly what I want here
I’m just here for entertainment
The people are great, site administration is a clusterfuck
I can’t wait to find that special person and get the hell off here
I like looking at the naked pix
I have no idea why I stay here
It gets worse every day
Other, as described below

whatfun39 42M
35 posts
5/28/2020 12:12 pm

This used to be a great place once upon a time. And I'm not just talking about the people here, cus for the most part they are good people with some real pieces of work. I remember when you could download the actual messanger and actually communicate with basically anyone gold or not. Then is standard members were told that we could only have 20 chat starts a day due to an over whelming amount of complaints by gold members, but we could still answer a gold member email. Then that went away. Out came the point system(don't get me started there) and poof we couldn't answer gold member emails anymore. Now it is a bidding war(lame), and only 3 chat chanses changes regardless is you get a response. Now you can only chat if you have enough points. I feel betwen that and fake profiles, this site has become toxic. I am really not sure why I stay. But I do enjoy the blogs from time to time. Thanks for reading my windy response and have great weekend

Calfitcouple 53M/53F
12 posts
5/26/2020 12:46 pm

useless if not gold member

JustLookn439 54M

5/23/2020 7:09 pm

I stopped paying long ago....on a previous profile when I realized that the site was giving females free Gold and charging men. I have NO idea, but discrimination just BUGS me! Some weird sense of "fairness" that I possess deep within.
Now they don't do that the same as they used to, but I still don't pay because I am also aware this site doesn't meet the REAL reason I came here....to MEET people.
Far and away most women here are not going to meet ANYONE...many explicitly state that. There are blogging women, and those that chat, many that cam for points and tips. Surprisingly, to me, many are ambassadors of the site. I take that to mean they are promoters of the site for pay, in one form or another. Their job is to lead us on so that we men pay.
I am sure I'd get more fun for my money at some AMP place! LOL
Too many fakes, too many female profiles that are really couples. And most of the remaining women are into other women. That leaves both remaining women for ALL the rest of us....but they won't meet.

panther550m 36M  
3 posts
5/20/2020 12:01 am

I'm not sure why I stay here either.

A few days ago I made a female account, free of course. While on one device with this account and the other account on another device I sent points from my gold account to the free and then an IM. The points arrived, the IM did not.

I then send a message from the paid account to the free account. It arrived, however when trying to open the message the typical sign-up-for-gold screen kept appearing although I pay for the standard contact add-on. No matter what I did the standard/free account could not read nor reply to my gold accounts message (with standard contacts add-on).

I'm paying for a Gold account to be contacted by fake profiles, paying extra on top of that for free members to be able to reply to me and message me which doesn't work. To be honest, another blog suggests trained monkeys are running the site; those monkeys would provide a better service. A 14 year old was once able to hack into the FBI, yet the Various, Inc. can run a website based on 30 year old code? That is both embarrassing to a technology inept person let alone web designers and shows complete carelessness from the site managers.

This place has become an experiment: how many features can be removed, how many fake profiles and how little actual members will it take until the men here will stop trying?

ItsThtPervertGuy 40M
326 posts
5/16/2020 12:12 pm

I don't even know where to begin to talk about this site. site administration is a clusterfuck (actually worse) features are leaving while others are falling off. Quality of people have slipped but that is not the sites fault. But at times it does being back some of the good times and reminds me why I stay and joined in the first place. NEED TOO GET THERE STUFF TOGETHER!!

Young7722 20M/19F
5 posts
5/12/2020 2:37 pm

It's ok

Scottjel316 49M
23 posts
5/11/2020 9:18 am

Site has gone down hill over the years alot more fake profiles now

Twinker466 19M
11 posts
5/4/2020 7:32 pm

Can't even view profile garbage

sietepasos 44M
31 posts
5/3/2020 10:40 am


SixfootthreeDGS 56M  
27 posts
5/2/2020 10:17 pm

Almost HALF of the votes are for "this place sucks" effectively. That says a whole lot about peoples experiences here

s2ndegree 61M  
9715 posts
5/1/2020 12:40 am

If it's an honest answer you're looking for
This isn't the sort of place that I would
actually look for someone.
So far, posting my real age and current face photo
I never get accused of ulterior motives.
I haven't senior profile.

Using more than all the road!

CharlesD6996 50M  
212 posts
4/29/2020 9:38 pm

Well, I just arrived here a few days ago as kind of an outlet from being in lock down for a month. I have interacted with exactly one real human being in the last 40 days and it was the guy bringing my groceries out of Walmart. For a whole 90 seconds.

I keep thinking I should pay for a membership. Why not, I like looking at pictures of nekked women. I like to chat. Interaction is cool, right?

Then I see things like the results of your poll, read things about fake profiles and cyberstalking and hold off pushing the shiny red button (gold in this case, but you get the drift).

All the best,

Post Me

marcocaliente52 58M
79 posts
4/20/2020 1:37 pm

I like TrannyDating.com Where locals meet. But is veryu difficult being standar one.

circusmanfun 56M  
4 posts
4/8/2020 1:06 pm

It's better than nothing, I've always been successful in here but the restrictions on free members are rediculous, not everyone can afford to be a paid member, they need to bring back the five free emails, it's not hurting their poctet book, probably just the opposite.

bigbooblover831 37M
18 posts
4/4/2020 6:27 am

I'm a relative new-comer to the TrannyDating.com Where locals meet online community. In my experience the userbase of the site is great. however, active members not so much. of the few women i have managed to speak to, they've been lovely. straight talking, open, genine women. the site admin is atrocious, theres so much wrong and so much can be improved.

IMaMagikman 34M
115 posts
4/4/2020 5:35 am

Clusterfuck. Perfect summary for the site. The people are both good and bad as with anything so no issue there. But the site admin and IT are not good to say it nicely.

lokillo7412 45M
18 posts
3/27/2020 7:12 pm

I miss the 5 free IM messages a day. Then it changed to 3 messages a day. And now no more free IM messages.

Jdhot4Tg 59M  
739 posts
3/23/2020 5:34 pm

its getting worst then it was 5 years ago there to many fake people on TrannyDating.com Where locals meet and not there sissy men claiming there tgurls and some have mustaches and beards

iwillravishu 55M  
73 posts
3/23/2020 2:50 pm

When CL went down and those folks moved over here- it's been a bunch of hookers, liars, flakes and a lot of losers!

Sirbodypleasure 46M  
1 post
3/15/2020 3:27 am

I want to add that my most recent profile to this one was removed for "questionable billing practices" What bullshit. I wsn't billing anybody first of all. I was in hospital a year at that point. Lost my house, truck etc. Ruined me financially. A guy I had befriended across the hall from me was kind enough to put up his credit card for me the month of May 2019 and I paid him cash.
Membership came up June 1st, 2019 and I had just sent a payment of my own, not my friends CC. ALL OF A SUDDEN and without warning or explanation, I cannot log in. The automated system basically was asking, "who the fuck are you?" I started my current profile and investigated the problem which came back as I previously stated with this comment. "Your profile is banned until you settle up with your Financial Institution." nott only did my friend get May money from me, he also was returned the May 2019 payment from his credit card. They then took my June money and banned my profile. How nice. And I have stayed around? Well, I was getting along well with a couple of really cool people and dated a lady as a result for a short time and we remain friends.

We've all seen Lady Justice blindfolded and holding the scale of Justice in one hand. That scale is tipping heavily TrannyDating.com Where locals meet, and not in your favor....AT ALL. The shit is about to fall off of that scale unless you fix the IM and webcam problems, reinstate the points system the way it was. More incentives fopr us paying members to stay and for God's sake, when I tip a standard member in the IM to chat with me, that member sould have to use those points to chat with the member who tipped them that 15 points. Used to be 10, then 11 points mind you.

You can afford it Mr. TrannyDating.com Where locals meet or whoever you are. What could it possibly cost? $100,000.00-$200,000.00 per month? Yeah, you can afford it. Even if it costs a couple or three million a month. YOU CAN AFFORD IT. WE ARE PAYING FO IT< GIVE IT TO US. I refuse to say please.

Love and kisses,


finebime5050 61M  
4 posts
3/14/2020 11:03 am

Continuous issue from pages not loading to poor customer service has me thinking of cancelling membership. The latest issue I have experienced is the inability to view the larger member photos when they are available. After posing the question to customer "dis"service, all I get from them is the same run-around answers for all issues (clear cache, don't access site through a bookmark, etc.) Funny how I don't have the same issue from one of their other sites. They have never been able to diagnose a problem and really don't think they care to.
Also, the site will randomly go down without warning after logging in.
For those reasons, I don't think I will be renewing my membership.

johnt999x 58M
22 posts
3/14/2020 9:24 am

It just ok

lokingforfun82 39M
114 posts
3/14/2020 2:08 am

Honestly, I'd say all of the above is how I've felt about this site over the years. Just depends on your point of view I guess and how you measure success.

dig76301 61M  
89 posts
3/14/2020 12:07 am

It's really crazy. You never know what you will get for the day. One day you get dumped off of the cam, next day IM does work, or you cant see who's flirting with you. Always something. But what's really epis is when people get upset because they cant get there way, that's classic. We're supposed to be adults, now you can meet some amazing people, but the nuts are running the asylum. Good luck in everyone's search ( have some fun, I do. ) peace dig76301.

Taotie_ 38M
1 post
3/13/2020 11:21 pm

There's also like ten plus sites with different names that all connect to the same source as TrannyDating.com Where locals meet. You can use your same login information on all of them and every site has the same list of people as well.

The difference between each and every psuedo site is negligible at best. It's really a crazy level of scam. I can't help but admire the cunning of it all, cornering the market as it were. It's irritating for sure but well played all the same.

1jazz2 61M
1 post
3/13/2020 7:48 pm

Basically you can't do shit here, unless you pay money for a gold account, to contact cam girl's, fake profile's or bot's. A free account gives you nothing at all. You can tell that the IM's you receive are BS. Just read what they say in their IM's. Miss spelled word's, incomplete sentence's, improper grammar, etc. I'v been a member off and on for year's and I don't know why I'm back. Seem's everything has gotten worse.

Chaosnov1969 50M
8 posts
3/13/2020 6:47 pm

Shit show.

kinglynch24 24M
4 posts
3/13/2020 5:06 pm

I like looking at the picture and a couple of other things but the only people interested in you are fake scammers or cam girls which is a bit annoying wasting points on IM.

aff301Maryland 34M
1 post
3/13/2020 7:54 am

    Quoting jamestiberius97:
    Place is a total shit show, I look at some of the ugliest women on the planet or profiles with like one photo from the silent film era or just some random body part posting a comment like, "cookies are good" and getting 500 men commenting about how much they love some cookies...posting ridiculous comments just stopping short of providing their social security numbers in the comment section and then that woman complaining about the number of responses they get and how they can't be bothered to respond to them all and then change their profile to read like a job description for a position i don't want. She then says something outlandish like..."If your name is Tom forget it". "Must have 2 dogs and 1 cat with 5 paws or don't waste my time". "If you think blue is an actual color don't message me."

    I could post the formula for changing lead to gold, and i get no comments, or profile views except from of course the greatest demographic on here and subsequently the least in demand....men...
hahaha This is the exact same vibe I get here. Like a laundry list of exclusions like a drug commercial.

I have had a few conversations, no actual meetups yet. Of the conversations I HAVE HAD, they all seem like lonely housewives that just want to talk but not actually want any action.

There has to be a better way/site.

LikestoolickU 40M
52 posts
3/13/2020 7:31 am

It appears to have a lot of issues. I contacted help. They sent me an e-mail, I replied to the e-mail and they told me to go through the help button. So, it’s a revolving door. Spend points on IM and either the recipient doesn’t get it or you get disconnected and it charges you to reconnect to your initial IM.

I also do not get any point from replying to blogs, messages, adding my pictures, ect, it’s frustrating.

doubledownRC 35M
23 posts
3/12/2020 8:28 pm

The fact that it is basically pointless for non-Gold members now is annoying to say the least.

both_of_us2009 58M/F
42 posts
3/12/2020 7:33 pm

I have been on this site as a single male b4 my last message. That was 20 years ago this month. I met a few nice ladies. We had lots of good times. I married a young lady that I met locally. We joined as a couple. We met a few people in the beginning as a couple. Had better success outside of TrannyDating.com Where locals meet. With all of the changes and charges on the website it is anything like it was when I signed up a long time ago. Based upon that I would say that this website has had a decrease in value for what they charge.

HalfBiCpl 61M/61F
1 post
3/12/2020 4:42 pm

Have been on and off here for over ten years! One used to be able to hook up here, chat with almost everyone you pinged meet and have a great time, now theirs nothing.. No one is real here anymore they troll you, lead you, then ghost you! If the points didn't maintain our membership we wouldn't be here anymore.. That's what this site is about anymore.. POINTS..

OrangeM4Fun 44M  
6 posts
3/12/2020 4:31 pm

I wouldn't have so much an issue if you actually got something in return for a paid account. Like, an IM that works. Or messages that work.

The fake accounts are easy to spot and dodge, they're just an annoyance. But when even IMs I send to friends who I know get marked as "Delivered" and they never see them? Fuck that noise. My account expires in July, and after that they can nuke it from orbit as far as I'm concerned. (If we're not all in quarantine by then anyways)

1fatd4u2 46M
21 posts
3/12/2020 11:50 am

At least give us back a cpl free chats a day

kdallas22 47M  
1 post
3/12/2020 5:30 am

Far, far too many fake Gold member accounts here, all looking for soul mates.

UrMan4Fun2020 37M
22 posts
3/12/2020 4:47 am

New to the site. Any thoughts or advice.

welshspring2 45M
1 post
3/12/2020 1:14 am

It used to be so much more fun.

middleeye 63M
1 post
3/11/2020 5:13 pm

if standard member cannot read the messages sent by paying members and respond why does anyone become a paying member?
Standard member have no incentive to be here. Give back the limited IM use!

3200Ram 39M
190 posts
3/11/2020 3:16 pm

this site more fake profile. fake female and couple profile.

Boobsntoeslvr12 42M  

3/11/2020 2:58 pm

I get what I want, sometimes I don't. Its what you make of it

kinkymale4chatxx 51M
6 posts
3/11/2020 10:18 am

Has gotten worse over the years

johnm2475 44M  
71 posts
3/11/2020 6:45 am

well this is my 2 sense, 1- im and webcam hardly ever works as far as me broadcasting 2- 85% of the women on here are fake, bots, scammers, posers, wannabes 3- I believe the men, gays, lesbians, tg, tv, sm, etc are the only ones that seems to be real on here 4- the only woman that has interest in me are the ones overseas or that lives in the midwest or west coast 5- If you are a woman and wanting to screw and that is all a cock on here will for sure screw you, a woman will have no problem finding a man, 6- I believe a real genuine man cannot find a legit woman on here to have a decent conversation with and most of the women I run across on here are wanting marriage or a serious relationship in which there is nothing wrong with that but it will be hard to find on here for a woman, 7 -been on here for a few years only met one woman just for a bj and that is all 8- too expensive for not getting what you pay for half the crap on here does not even work

tsn4fun2 44M/42F  
258 posts
3/11/2020 3:32 am

    Quoting Bisexualcpl6977:
    We have been pretty fortunate. We have met some amazing people and had tons of fun. We have had our share of fakes though too.
Fortunate indeed. We are still trying.

slaveyearning 38F
45 posts
3/10/2020 10:05 pm


this site is going down fast. if you pull your ads it will get attention

Conv3rsat1on06 56M
2 posts
3/10/2020 8:37 pm

Hope as we may for the site to improve, it seems to be getting worse. So I canceled my old hold account. IM never seems to work.

MsSwitch1 100F  
408 posts
3/10/2020 4:38 pm

155 I don’t know why I stay here
154 It gets worse every day

Now this is what makes blogging fun, data and comments to study

Squirterhottie32 28F
1 post
3/10/2020 2:44 pm

I just joined n I have met 4 men in person to lick my kitty with no drama so that's all I'm looking for nothing more so I'm good for now lol...

Jedrink505 65M  
12 posts
3/10/2020 1:55 pm

A stiff dick has no conscience, hence completely fucked up sites like TrannyDating.com Where locals meet continue on!!!!

tsn4fun2 44M/42F  
258 posts
3/9/2020 6:42 pm

If anything I’ve learned on here is to wash and disinfect ANYTHING you get from a public store before you use it. I just watched some disturbing vids from people going “shopping” and taking the “try before you buy” just a little too seriously. Smh. And the comments were all positive. I don’t know about you but I would think twice before buying your next bbq grill brush.

Cocklover0416 47M
12 posts
3/9/2020 6:15 pm

Can't ever seen to get a local hookup but every guy 1000 miles from me wants to hookup...

hrnyinelko 58M/47F  
8 posts
3/9/2020 4:41 pm

Can't get or send messages. Why buy membership

XXXFUN501 47M  
11 posts
3/9/2020 12:30 pm

If they can't fix the bugs with the messaging they won't ever get any money out of me. Post 4301168

Dom__1964 55M
1 post
3/9/2020 10:23 am

Yes the site has a lot of trolls, bots and fakes. I don't think it's only this site, every site has deteriorated. Trust on the internet is fading.
Some of you complain about pricing. I'm sorry to say, the only way to reduce fake accounts, bots, scammers and the time wasters is to make everyone pay. NO FREE ACCOUNTS at all. (men and women............. let's face it most of the bots are women)
Maybe a lesser fee for membership.

MsSwitch1 replies on 3/10/2020 4:37 pm:
That’s a legit point, but I can’t get myself to spend money on this..

sprint2055 49M
21 posts
3/9/2020 9:49 am

It is fun to look and talk, who knows...

curiousparty1234 34M
8 posts
3/9/2020 5:24 am

I think the biggest issue is the money grab personally. I joined years ago when Standard got 5 free IM's a day, points would roll *just enough* in for using the site, and to entice you to go Gold. You could see who looked at you (not look back without spending), you could see who flirted, all the features worked (Eg Flirting is apparently supposed to give the other person access to your account for 30 days, I try clicking on people that flirted with me and I get the "go gold to view" pop up).

Then they started to peel everything away and putting it in a "pay me to use it" basket. Going from 5 free to 3 free, wasn't really an issue for me as I live in a smaller area though it still sucked when there were people that I was interested in here. Then you couldn't look at who viewed you without being Gold, the points for participating in site events and such slowed to a trickle. Now? If you're not paying for every little feature (and it sounds like Gold members are getting shafted too. And not in the good way) the site is barely usable.

If they listened to their customers, added back some of the "teaser" features for Standard members, allowing people who are contacted by an Ambassador to reply (even just once) to them, adding back 3 free daily IM's for everyone.
I do not think they should give away the farm! Just, you know put that carrot on a stick out again for Standard Members that lets them use the site, then makes them go "well you know what? I can get that carrot if I pay!" I know I'd be more willing to pay for a site that wants me to pay but gives me some access to features to see my investment is worth it, than one that constantly removed features and access as the site has over the years and the ones that I do have access to don't work.

Bisexualcpl6977 48M/44F  
8 posts
3/9/2020 3:48 am

We have been pretty fortunate. We have met some amazing people and had tons of fun. We have had our share of fakes though too.

funinnj19 41M

3/8/2020 4:42 pm

Functionality is not there.

Points not being refunded for conversations that dont happen. As a conversation is two way right??????

Its fraud

Grangeroanonimo 41M
194 posts
3/8/2020 2:31 pm

Me encanta andar por aqui

partimeswinger2 44M/44F

3/8/2020 12:41 pm

FREE???? What's free about anything here. You can't talk with anyone. You can't email anyone. You can't view profiles. TrannyDating.com Where locals meet is nothing but a con show. In order for people to decide if they want to pay the high cost each month, TrannyDating.com Where locals meet better bring back some of the freebees so we can "test the waters".

DomMaster06947 55M
1 post
3/7/2020 1:44 pm

They have taken away alot of free ways to chat on here.

Sidney69 58M  
99 posts
3/7/2020 10:19 am

I first signed up on this site back in the 56k modem days, before the ability to post photos even existed. I was having good success meeting people until about the mid 90s...then management changed, and so did the quality of the site. It's been a long, slow downhill slide since then! Now, the only way i'll pay for membership is by using a $10 gift card every now and then to watch member videos, and now more and more of those are nothing but hijacked commercial porn. The owners of this site should be charged with fraud.

Dieselmoon 38M
2 posts
3/6/2020 9:36 pm

Site used to be pretty good I was an active member for 2 years with good results. Now I come back after a little sebatical and seems like there's a lot of fake profiles and scamers

1alone4fun 51M
22 posts
3/6/2020 6:17 am

the site has worked for me as a paid member and not. just have to take your time, seems like you get out what you put in.... unless you put in money, then you don't get that back! Gold membership is only good for viewing the vids

pleagain 54M
68 posts
3/6/2020 2:35 am

when i first joined years ago this site was rocking! lot of members things worked here people would actually meet. now its turned into a big shit sandwich. no one meets people are leaving very sad days indeed. iam getting close to bailing out myself. iam to the point i wont pay anymore. why should i nothing works here! im never works or takes your points away cant view pictures or profiles or watch cams ughhhhh. hell my cam wont work here anymore so i cant show off my hard stiff cock. getting tougher here just to masturbate! and i love to jerk off. i cant see how they continue this site if they wont listen to there members. soon they wont have any.

sassos 54M
39 posts
3/6/2020 2:28 am

TrannyDating.com Where locals meet is what you make it, just don't expect too much. Filter carefully, tread lightly, take your time and you might just find some fun friends....it isn't a quick fix

Hardcocknme2 43M
46 posts
3/5/2020 6:40 pm

Players all talk

marcncleo_69 57M/53F  
175 posts
3/5/2020 3:21 pm

We are real tho

Dontbgentle2 52M
26 posts
3/5/2020 1:37 pm

Just here for the entertainment!!

Yourusaul 50M
31 posts
3/5/2020 11:59 am

I have been a member for a while and to say the least it is getting worse. is there another site that is better than this? if so please let me know and I will be glad to check it out.

summerlove94 53F
4 posts
3/5/2020 8:14 am

so lets face it, its not that hard for girls to get sex. I don't pay and I wont pay. but they are making it more and more difficult to use the site without paying. eventually I will leave. I have not been on here that long but seen lots of changes already, pushing for money. they are not very smart. trying to force women to pay will backfire on them. eventually it will be nothing but men and the female scammers/gold diggers etc. that's just my opinion. and at least make improvements to IM. I would never pay with such a crappy IM that hardly ever works.

lekky2020 33T
2 posts
3/5/2020 6:06 am

i signed up without having a clue. this site isn't really for me since im not comfortable having abrupt hookups with strangers without being tested first. and im usually a one partner / couple type of guy at a time. i think i should have signed up to plenty of fish instead or something. not the sites fault, but it is very bleak. can't do shit without paying.

FSCouple4 59M/38F  
6 posts
3/5/2020 12:16 am

Well it seems to be getting worse and worse and it is not all TrannyDating.com Where locals meet, People seem to just be here for kicks to get peoples hopes up in meeting someone then just drop of or stop all together. However TrannyDating.com Where locals meet needs to stop and listen to the people and get this site back on track like it was years ago. Starting with Web Cams, It has turned into all about points, To me they should be sent to the Web Cam Model page not the standard Web Cams where people truly into the lifestyle are. I also think anyone that logs in everyday should be given a Gold membership as it was until yesterday. And stop changing chat. It use to work.

maybefun57 73M
14 posts
3/4/2020 11:00 pm

we all agree this site sucks.

avgkinkster 52M
33 posts
3/4/2020 3:06 pm

its ponderous here...they seem intent on trying to squeeze every dime out of everyone ! so disappointing

wntu2squirt4us 55M/63F
60 posts
3/4/2020 2:30 pm

we're standard member, and the IM NEVER WORKS, and we know that we are pissed off because of IM. We get members saying hello and CAN NEVER RESPOND because the IM SUCKS.

Slim1der100 47M
124 posts
3/4/2020 10:24 am

It's getting harder & harder to contact ppl, to set up a meet. Harder to get points. What happen to the 3 free IM's a day? I can't even contact my friends on here, anymore. There's way too many changes... Like WTF???🤬😤🤷🏾‍♂️

DocManther 57M  
2 posts
3/4/2020 9:06 am

I've had 3 women chat with me for a few weeks...just happen to be out of the country working for some red Cross type shit....then tell me they are in a bit of a pinch and bneed me to send them a lot of money
..saying I'm an asshole because I won't send my money to someone I've never met. 2 are still on this site

EfresherE 37M
12 posts
3/4/2020 8:58 am

Pointless, this site is useless. How they trick anyone into paying for gold is beyond me

Curious123622 68M
26 posts
3/4/2020 5:06 am

The problem with being a gold member is you cannot IM standard members so that eliminates half the field

MsSwitch1 100F  
408 posts
3/3/2020 3:52 pm

LOL an equal tie between I have no idea why I stay here and it’s getting worse every day

blackdude4white 60M
91 posts
3/3/2020 2:45 pm

This site is just a money grubbing shithole of a site. If you have to write about something not working you get the same reply no matter what it is. As a gold member you should not have to use points to talk to someone. That is double dipping. I come here look around and leave. I get no points for logging in or anything else. If I want points I have to buy them, so what is the point of a gold membership other than it puts money into their pockets. I have been a member since 03or so. It was a good site to visit, but that has changed. So I am always asking myself why do I come here. The only time now that I pay for gold is when it is $47.00/year. It is barely worth that.

exhibicionista46 39M
265 posts
3/3/2020 9:26 am

I am only exhibicionist and i like people view me

ncgirl162 58M/39F  
28 posts
3/3/2020 9:26 am

The biggest problem is when you use points to send a message. It deducts the 15 points and you get no response. Sometimes right after you say hello the person is no longer on IM and you lose the points. I would rather pay 25 points only if you get a response. This way you know they saw your message rather than guessing if they are not interested or just not receiving messages.

DPDominus 39M/38F  
6 posts
3/3/2020 9:11 am

Fetlife so much better. We only keep the account open because they gave us free gold for a year. The banner of the old white hair pounding some pussy stating "go all day again" tells you all you need to know. Someone is paying to a run a add marketed at older folks. There is a reason for that - you dont spend a ton of money on marketing at a place like this unless you know the demographic and that you will get returns.

lickitdryokik 36M
4 posts
3/3/2020 7:47 am

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lickitdryokik 36M
4 posts
3/3/2020 7:45 am

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SexyStarDan1 34M
55 posts
3/3/2020 5:26 am

They have been slowly putting everything behind a paywall. Just garbage form what it was before 2010...

Ltnoman42 54M
74 posts
3/3/2020 2:40 am

a lot of good people in here, quiet a few that I meet and play with them , but the site is getting worst by the minute


Can_we_explore 93M
14 posts
3/3/2020 1:38 am

Well, it seems that its not what it seems to be even though its advertised as what it seems. At this point I just come on to vent and share stories. I meet a decent amount of females offline so it balances this site out.

soundsculptor 44M
49 posts
3/2/2020 10:16 pm

    Quoting stallion3301:
    Seems like everything is a money grab now
Pretty much.

soundsculptor 44M
49 posts
3/2/2020 10:14 pm

    Quoting JustLookn439:
    I'd like to say the people are great here but the site sucks. I am now less sure the first part is true. I believe the vast majority are not what they portray themselves to be. Communication is absolutely terrible. Not all of it is A. F F.
    Some "women" that I've interacted with have other ways to communicate with me....and yet when things look promising for a meet...........SILENCE. What does THAT tell you about the quality of the people on here? This isn't a stray woman here and there. It is the norm.
Pretty much sums it up. I guess when my points that I built up over logging in every day for years are gone, so will I.

Wantsome12plzme 51F  
116 posts
3/2/2020 8:58 pm


JustLookn439 54M

3/2/2020 7:15 pm

    Quoting yodaman816:
    I have had some luck here and as a free member its hard to complain but lately the IM works less and less and it cost more and more points. When I try to earn more points it rarely gives them to me but when I use the Im it sure takes those 15 away in a hurry.
Given how the site leads you to believe people are available when they aren't, it seems they should only take points if you get a response. Of course, that isn't in the site's best interest. You can go through all your points without a response. Worst part is you don't know if the other party is simply ignoring or not there. So, how many times do you try?

JustLookn439 54M

3/2/2020 7:12 pm

    Quoting Johuncut54:
    I have met couple people on here but seems that when you have points you use them then nobody talks back with you and we did get three free chats dont get that any more I enjoy reading the stories but I wished it go back the way it was
It will never go back, unfortunately. We are being funneled to pay for a site that has terrible rules and restrictions. WHY can we not provide contact information on the first couple emails if we choose? This is censorship at its worst. Sure "abuse" could happen....it can also happen after the first few email exchanges. If we choose to direct someone to use text or other apps to communicate, it should make no difference since they are being paid...(if we are gold lol)

JustLookn439 54M

3/2/2020 7:07 pm

I'd like to say the people are great here but the site sucks. I am now less sure the first part is true. I believe the vast majority are not what they portray themselves to be. Communication is absolutely terrible. Not all of it is A. F F.
Some "women" that I've interacted with have other ways to communicate with me....and yet when things look promising for a meet...........SILENCE. What does THAT tell you about the quality of the people on here? This isn't a stray woman here and there. It is the norm.

RaiseTheBarCHS 37M
6 posts
3/2/2020 5:19 pm

I think if you've been here long enough then you've held every single one of these opinions at some point.

uhavethefun 61M  
1 post
3/2/2020 4:13 pm

When its good..its good..when its bad..it SUCKS

w4w4play4ongoing 63F

3/2/2020 4:05 pm

I met a wonderful man on this site. Can lightning strike twice? We'll see....

Imapig54 66M
46 posts
3/2/2020 2:34 pm

I have had a lot of fun on here

yodaman816 48M
1 post
3/2/2020 2:23 pm

I have had some luck here and as a free member its hard to complain but lately the IM works less and less and it cost more and more points. When I try to earn more points it rarely gives them to me but when I use the Im it sure takes those 15 away in a hurry.

looking4u69ca 59M
3711 posts
3/2/2020 1:22 pm

Most of the people on here are wonderful. I do like many of the blogs and bloggers.
You don't know what works well on here until the administration changes it.
They seem to be forever tweeking what works and they pay no attention to all of the complaints on the things that don't.
If I meet someone on here bonus. Met a few. Some good. Some not.
My plate is kind of full anyway.
I don't like offensive remarks on the blogs and it should be easier to report the offending party (bullies) and actually have something done about it.
Anyone who dosen't like it here is free to leave at anytime.
Delete your profile before you do. That takes your pictures and videos with you.

Brownie202 63F  
1766 posts
3/2/2020 1:04 pm

I don't have that many glitches. Can be I use less features. Of what I use some always work. The rest does most of the time. Only negative thing is some users but that is life. Will always be @$$holes at all sites and offline.

Humans are the most dangerous animals on earth.

If only animals had the ability to know when to keep away from us humans they would be better off.

stallion3301 45M
10 posts
3/2/2020 12:57 pm

Seems like everything is a money grab now

Edua2013sw 53M
237 posts
3/2/2020 12:55 pm

Hi MsSwitch1 are good questio a lot are right put in my selection may its a reseum of all other

jam5259 67M  
2 posts
3/2/2020 11:36 am

seems as if the people here are not really serious about meeting. Site has flaws. wonder how many are really looking to meet new people.

1952MichaelE 67M  
22 posts
3/2/2020 11:10 am

I am new here and have not yet formed an opinion. My partner of 18 years passed away last year, so to be honest, I haven't a clue about much. At this point, I just browse. I will be relocating later this year, so have no intention of meeting anyone now.

That's the long answer. The short answer is, ask me again in 6 months.

MonsterCacti 35M
666 posts
3/2/2020 10:59 am

This site is a freaking joke

Giveandget7 60M
72 posts
3/2/2020 9:13 am

They just keep squeezing...…..

DomMaster06946 55M
8 posts
3/2/2020 7:36 am

To many restrictions for basic members. The 5 free chats a day was ok, I even remember when we could chat free with no limit. Make staying worth while lower the cost to chat or bring back the 5 free chats a day. It really did not hurt anyone having 5 free chats.
Or making it easier ways to earn points can make a big difference for me.

Johuncut54 55M
18 posts
3/2/2020 7:15 am

I have met couple people on here but seems that when you have points you use them then nobody talks back with you and we did get three free chats dont get that any more I enjoy reading the stories but I wished it go back the way it was

Suprcuk58 58M
85 posts
3/2/2020 7:07 am

Been here several months. No contact yet. Point system changed. IM doesn't work half the time. All the "matches" that show up are inactive. Same as "local" members. 90% are inactive profiles. Anything to get you to burn up your points.

60satisfaction 62M  
196 posts
3/2/2020 7:02 am

I guess that until something better cums along, we're stuck with this shit!

CleavageFan4U 63M  
61683 posts
3/2/2020 5:54 am

4 (especially the bloggers), 6 + 8.

I Just Got Less Friendly
What39s Going on Here
BW, on HNW
Private Cleavage My Private Blog - Tell Me ALL Your Secrets

xNewsPhotog 57M
184 posts
3/2/2020 3:19 am

There seems to be a LOT of "fake" profiles compared to when I first started here. Too bad there aren't more "real" people closer to where I live.

redy2plzu6969 66M/57F  
66 posts
3/1/2020 10:19 pm

All they care about is cutting and free services and figuring out a way to make more money. They allow too many fakes and flakes on here!

Yours_4A_knight 55M
1344 posts
3/1/2020 9:37 pm

The site has its problems but I know that my biggest problem with finding partners has been and always will be me.

Not the Whole Truth but the truth that I can see.

SomewhereSE 62M
217 posts
3/1/2020 7:26 pm

You left out “All of the above”. This place is like watching a slow motion train wreck.

MsSwitch1 replies on 3/2/2020 5:51 pm:
Good call

LadiesR2B1rst 57M  
445 posts
3/1/2020 7:11 pm

I think the "Adult" in the title is about as rare as the "Friend" part ! It seems most are looking for perfection or points ! The only real lady I actually met was before they started the points to chat. It's close to my renewal as a gold member and unless I change my mind I do not plan to renew ! I have seen many complaints about the IM service and I have had no problems with it . Thank You, MsSwitch1 for asking this question !!

bitchkitty2017 67F  
5272 posts
3/1/2020 6:28 pm

soooo does everyone who dont get laid at once on here bitch and moan about anything else but how they trash the site??? If you do not like the place by all means shut the door behind you go bitch somewhere else you dont like or agree with how the business is run ...pleeeeezeee!!!!!! dont ruin it for all of us ...personally i dont care if you are not happy its not all about you anyway..lol

wildthoughts 64M  
1116 posts
3/1/2020 5:48 pm

Things could be better ,unknown how to improve the site . the members are general good . As expected there are people who like to make drama .

fffinder2000 56M
86 posts
3/1/2020 5:29 pm

I tend to remain hopeful. I have been a member for a long time and have had a few relationships and have met some good people....BUT, as time goes on the logistics of the site are failing. Yes, I am a standard member now. Have been gold in the past and may attempt again but other gold members have expressed their feelings that the site isn't what it use to be. So, hopeful to meet some good people again but not holding my breath.

Clowt 49M
128 posts
3/1/2020 4:59 pm

Definitely the people (in general) are great......the site, run by shmucks!!!!!

shadowtoo69 65M  
931 posts
3/1/2020 4:49 pm

I like parts of the site. I dislike points, buzz mode, fake/scam profiles. IM sucks and new users should be told up front that they will not be able to interact with anyone until they become a paid member...

Iceking6996 34M
25 posts
3/1/2020 4:34 pm

Shit I’m still waiting to meet somebody off here, Came close a couple times but nothing ever pans out the instant messenger is whackAnd I would never pay for this

phatfuck306 26M
15 posts
3/1/2020 4:19 pm

They make it very difficult as a standard member

VikklLouisecd 71T
25 posts
3/1/2020 4:18 pm

At my age it's a crap shoot to begin with, why I stay here is MAYBE
I'LL find someone that's real. So many liars and fakes all the time gets sickening more than not. Got hacked off here too. That's why I didn't reup my profile to gold. I like the site, but getting sick of all the shit day after day. Just wish, ( LOL ) people were more honest and caring, and use the site for what it was setup to do. Have fun and meet genuine potential partners. Till that happens, I'll stay standard

Koffla 64M
55792 posts
3/1/2020 3:14 pm

I get exactly what I want here!!

CMShan06 46M  
8 posts
3/1/2020 2:38 pm

2 things that hasn't changed. Single men who think with the d!ck that gives the rest of us a bad name and the only flirts I get are from cam girls.

Paulxx001 63M
17045 posts
3/1/2020 1:31 pm

all of the above...
none of the above...
What was the question? 🙄
Oh yeah...
I like it once in a while.... 🍷🍷❗😎

... is there another way to look at it.
We Have Lost Forty Million Good Men WTF

FoxtrotCalling 52M
7 posts
3/1/2020 1:06 pm

Some parts I like, receiving messages and chatting with new people. I especially enjoy when those conversations lead to sexy liaisons.
I've read some of the blogs and erotic fiction. I like the creativity of members.
I don't really like the webcam feature (I don't like webcam in general, watching or broadcasting) and I (I believe most people) don't like the the fact that you have to reload your screen to see when people contact you.

zeke53028 61M  
1092 posts
3/1/2020 12:09 pm

I'm just here for perv the pics and videos. The site was better years ago. Now there are too many fake and stolen profiles and pics. Most of the cams are replayed videos, and there's waaay to many glitches.

niceone458y 49M
26 posts
3/1/2020 11:59 am

Would never pay because of all the glitches and BS

bigguy046 55M
9 posts
3/1/2020 11:55 am

The site itself is fine, many of the people suck. (i have made a couple of friends who I talk to off site)
The people who won't respond to a polite opening message, or who do respond and then in the middle of a conversation, just vanish.......are low class.
Ghosting people is so childish and low class.

Mikemike107015 49M  
131 posts
3/1/2020 11:28 am

Personally I've tried many sites and found this one works the best for me. Of course it isn't perfect but at my age I've come to realize perfection is a fantasy. ✌

hot4heels2020 46M
11 posts
3/1/2020 11:26 am

I literally just have that in my profile "Why am I Even Here Again"
Full of fake profiles and people looking to jerk off. Constant ghosting and no shows. Why bother. Anyone know of a better site?

FresnoWoman 49F
778 posts
3/1/2020 11:22 am

I'm just here for entertainment. The blogs, mostly, and sometimes hanging out in the chat rooms is entertaining also. Another factor that falls under the "Other" vote is prevention of points decay by regularly logging in. I might want to use them later.

mufdiver69er2 59M  
1309 posts
3/1/2020 11:21 am

a combination of several of the options so...other

woop woop

randi19563 64M

3/1/2020 11:15 am

One thing never changes about this site, and I've been off/on here for over 13 years.......

Shitty profiles from boring lazy members who can't understand why nobody is interested in them. If they put in no effort when advertising themselves, why should anybody else give a shit about them?

I actually LIKE the additional restrictions implemented in the past 6 months on Standard Members. Why? Because they have massively cut down on the Idiot trolls in IM or the Messaging Centre who were just on here to throw a bunch of shit at a wall to see if anything actually stuck, and they didn't care that they were as annoying AF.

jeepsR4fun 53M  
94 posts
3/1/2020 11:03 am

Talent VS quantity the never ending search, someone close

69ereatwetpussy 58M
3132 posts
3/1/2020 10:51 am

As a standard member I'm losing more ND more each month
I. Sure I'll lose blogs soon
Just lose picture contest last month
Lost IM

KarissaT 50T  
11 posts
3/1/2020 10:50 am

Not sure anyone gets what they want but occasionally good things happen. Its a lot of work weeding out the pervs, the assholes, and the insincere. So nothing happens too quickly. I think the most frustrating thing is that people just think they can do the minimum and have success.

tubesteak66 53M  
599 posts
3/1/2020 10:49 am

TrannyDating.com Where locals meet hasn't entirely met my expectations but I'm not ready to give up just yet.

jamestiberius97 41M  
1 post
3/1/2020 10:27 am

Place is a total shit show, I look at some of the ugliest women on the planet or profiles with like one photo from the silent film era or just some random body part posting a comment like, "cookies are good" and getting 500 men commenting about how much they love some cookies...posting ridiculous comments just stopping short of providing their social security numbers in the comment section and then that woman complaining about the number of responses they get and how they can't be bothered to respond to them all and then change their profile to read like a job description for a position i don't want. She then says something outlandish like..."If your name is Tom forget it". "Must have 2 dogs and 1 cat with 5 paws or don't waste my time". "If you think blue is an actual color don't message me."

I could post the formula for changing lead to gold, and i get no comments, or profile views except from of course the greatest demographic on here and subsequently the least in demand....men...

MsSwitch1 replies on 3/1/2020 5:52 pm:
I’d like the formula please

Shrewdy2 56M
46 posts
3/1/2020 10:19 am

I’m just here for the Entertainment on the A/L! The glitches get worse daily so will never stump up the money for a site that doesn’t work!!

MMXX2020 49M
174 posts
3/1/2020 10:01 am

Some very interesting blogs.

hotcho396readyno 68F
1 post
3/1/2020 9:53 am

more interracial videos needed

Leegs2012 47M
53696 posts
3/1/2020 9:34 am

Voted: I’m just here for entertainment. I enjoy the Blogs and cams.

MsSwitch1 100F  
408 posts
3/1/2020 9:21 am

3.1.2020 12:21pm

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